dont comment yet :))

k so there are so many badass enby ppl at my school and i look like society’s stereotype of a girl. i feel like the ppl ive told abt me being nonbinary think im faking it or some shit for attention-

they just dont say it. most if not all have short hair, dyed, and they look more masculine. i really really wanna look like that, but i cant bc im in the closet. i wanna fit in with the nonbinary com-

-munity, or societal standards of what nonbinary ppl should look like. i feel invalid and like im faking it, even tho its how i feel inside yk?

end of rant, you may comment now. im mainly looking for advice yk?

enby people do NOT owe ANYONE masculinity

They can be their own person, by dressing in the way they want. People should believe you and they shouldn't make you feel bad about it too.

I'm not saying you don't have to look masculine, I'm just saying that you could look however you want

It's not fair that people require enbys to look a certain way. that's just stupid

@♒︎ 𝚐𝚛𝚊𝚢’𝚜 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐫 ♒︎ yea, i get what you’re saying. i wanna look more masculine tho. and yea it really is dumb. i’m sorry if some of the things i said came off wrong- :(

@⋆☽◡̈ηєѕѕ ηєє∂ѕ яєѕт◡̈☽⋆ Eyyyy don't be sorry

@⋆☽◡̈ηєѕѕ ηєє∂ѕ яєѕт◡̈☽⋆ You're totally about good in how you said everything

aw gray, i feel that way too. ppl are like, you? enby? you look like a girl. well yeah, but what do they care? the stereotype goes both ways

but you dont owe them anything. if ppl wanna say that you dont look enby, so what? what matters is how you feel.

also tubbo is cute :)

@~ʝυѕт_ωσlfу~ awe i’m sry gray thats rly stupid of them- its totally not fair that ppl expect u to look more masc to be nb- and i understand feeling unvalid as long as u are changing for urself and not for othr ppl

@~ʝυѕт_ωσlfу~ sry ik i was no help but just keep being urself? we all love u gray ur amazing dont let anyone tell u otherwise 🖤

@~ʝυѕт_ωσlfу~ and its stupid if they think nb gender norms are the only thing that matters-

@~ʝυѕт_ωσlfу~ also YASSS TUBBOOO