Awe this is so precious and adorable my dear Juanita! Beautiful my lovely friend. 😍😙💖💖💖💞💞💞🌜🐇
@JAguirre thank you so much... I miss commenting you... I've just been through a lot in this last week... my husband left me about a week
@JAguirre ago... I'm still hurting from it... I'm trying really hard to stay strong...
@🍃Julie🌊🌅 Oh no my dear sweet friend, I am so sorry and I hurt for your pain. I am sending healing hugs and prayers for the strenth I know
is in your spirit my dear friend. Love to you my sweet dear. This will be brand new doors to open for you in your life. Always believe in
the strength within yourself darling.😙😙😙😙😙😙😙💞💞💞💞💕💕💞💞💗💗💗💗
@JAguirre thank you my sweet Julie... your words mean a lot to me...
Adorable and precious 😍😍😍❤❤
@JAguirre thank you love
@Sandra Jordan I am so sorry to read this. My prayers go out to you; I wish so badly that I could do something other than hold you in my thoughts
@Sandra Jordan and heart. I saved that incredible post you made for me to my hard drive so I can look at it now and then and feel happy.
@Sandra Jordan How I wish I could make you happy! Know if you ever need an ear or a shoulder, I will be here for you.
@JAguirre oh how I could use a friend right about now... thank you so much for being there for me Sandy... love you lots
@Sandra Jordan Love you, too. If you ever want to talk, leave a message in my most recent picture and we'll hope to be in the app at the same ti
@Sandra Jordan me. I cannot imagine what you must be going through! I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you.
@JAguirre thank you so much... you are truly a blessing to me...
@Sandra Jordan A small blessing for what you are feeling, but thanks for saying that.
So that's why you've been so quiet. Poor Juanita...I've been there and even when it's the right thing to do, it's very painful. I was the
...who ended my 1st marriage...we loved each other but we were so different we (I?) was miserable. Still you grieve and then you feel bad
no one died and it was supposed to be a positive thing...I have a rule abt giving unsolicited advice but I'm gonna break it. Trust your
feelings...they are never right or wrong, they are just there and ask to be heard. Cry when you are sad, yell or write bad words or punch a
pillow when you are mad. And let your feelings out. You have so many friends here. I didn't talk much, because everybody gave advice...
(like now...oh dear). Sometimes you just need to get things out so you can sort thru it by yourself...we can do that...I mean just listen...
and empathize with whatever you feel. You are on a rough road, with blind curves and different paths...and even tho it is a hard journey,
you will also experience adventure, a sense of freedom, and incredible personal growth. Sandy is here, and Julie, and Monica, and if you get
desperate...there's me...lol. Stay in touch...keep talking and FEELING...love and 800 big comfort hugs...(end of unsolicited advice..,)
@JAguirre thank you so much for the words of encouragement... it really means a lot to me... I just want to break down right now...
I hear you my friend. You are not crazy. Divorce is 2nd only to death of a loved one regarding the impact it has on a person's life. Read
where you don't want to get out of bed and can't eat. And it's no wonder, your life as you knew it is gone..Who would want to eat?
You probably aren't sleeping well and your attention span is most likely shorter than a 3 yr. old's...you are still not crazy.
Your upheaval is exhausting...more than your most extensive work out...more than your most taxing job...you are tired for real, Sweetheart l
If you are able, stay in bed...snatch rest when you can get it...your body needs it. Hang out on the sofa...binge watch TV if you want to...
Don't answer the phone, if you don't feel like talking to anyone. This doesn't mean you will do this forever, but for now your body says you
needs to pull back some, so you can decide how to re-group. Some find newly single groups thru their church or community helpful...others
find existing close friends ease the pain some...the bottom line is no one knows your pain and sadness better than you...only you can know
which path helps you the most. It may take a few trys. Take your time for big decisions, such as legal help. Internet may have helpful info
when you feel up to research... no need to rush the big stuff. You are not being a drama queen with how you are feeling...your feeling are
true..and feelings of devastation, feeling lost and heart broken are not exaggerations...You will heal, but knowing that doesn't lessen
what you feel now. My only concern beyond your heart wrenching suffering is keeping you physically healthy. I am currently recovering frm
complications frm surgery in May..won't bore you with all that...point is my weight has dropped 30 pounds and is still dropping. Eating is
still difficult. I have been put on nutritional supplements... Ensure and/or Boost..available at the grocery store. They taste good, don't
cooking or any food prep...only 8 ozs, they are quick and don't leave you feeling bloated or worse. Your body is going thru alot...at least
these will give you some badly needed nutrition.
If you need a shoulder, know Sandy is here for you...& I will check on you as well. You will see later on how strong and resilient you are.
When you feel up to it, stay in touch. Know Sandy is very concerned. Love and hugs, my friend.
@JAguirre your such an amazing woman 🐰... I love you friend... yes that is exactly how I feel... thank you again... I'm so grateful for
@JAguirre having friends like you and Sandy... y'all 2 are truly my Queen's...
@Bunny Bram I check on you every day. You are the amazing one. You acknowledge how you feel, without self pity...it is what it is and it takes
@Bunny Bram courage to allow those feelings to come through. Many suppress this phase because, as you know well, it's incredibly painful and
@Bunny Bram even frightening. Others mask the pain with anger. Only the brave, like YOU, face the grief head on and shoulder the suffering. I
@Bunny Bram admire your courage, my friend....A wise person once said...(actually I think it was a character in a Stephen King novel...lol)
@Bunny Bram The best way to get over something is to go through it...which is exactly what you are doing.
@Bunny Bram When I was in the hospital I had a young but very no nonsense nurse...only in her 20s but so wise and so authentic. She came in to
@Bunny Bram see me when she learned that after 15 days, I was finally being discharged. I'll never forget what she said...
@Bunny Bram "I promise, you will not feel this way forever...This is temporary...not the rest of your life." As she was leaving, she stopped
@Bunny Bram at the door and shook her finger..."Remember, it's only temporary..."
@Bunny Bram Maybe her advice can help you as it helped me thru the rough days that were to follow.
@Bunny Bram Question: Now that you've seen them, wld you like me to delete my comments that go on forever..so your page won't be so cluttered?
@Bunny Bram I promise, it's no problem. Meanwhile, I'll continue to check on you here at the "Bunny Picture"...Easy to remember.
@Bunny Bram Let me know how you are feeling. Love you my brave friend. Sending you big chocolate covered hugs.
Awe this is so precious and adorable my dear Juanita! Beautiful my lovely friend. 😍😙💖💖💖💞💞💞🌜🐇
@JAguirre thank you so much... I miss commenting you... I've just been through a lot in this last week... my husband left me about a week
@JAguirre ago... I'm still hurting from it... I'm trying really hard to stay strong...
@🍃Julie🌊🌅 Oh no my dear sweet friend, I am so sorry and I hurt for your pain. I am sending healing hugs and prayers for the strenth I know
is in your spirit my dear friend. Love to you my sweet dear. This will be brand new doors to open for you in your life. Always believe in
the strength within yourself darling.😙😙😙😙😙😙😙💞💞💞💞💕💕💞💞💗💗💗💗
@JAguirre thank you my sweet Julie... your words mean a lot to me...
Adorable and precious 😍😍😍❤❤
@JAguirre thank you love
@Sandra Jordan I am so sorry to read this. My prayers go out to you; I wish so badly that I could do something other than hold you in my thoughts
@Sandra Jordan and heart. I saved that incredible post you made for me to my hard drive so I can look at it now and then and feel happy.
@Sandra Jordan How I wish I could make you happy! Know if you ever need an ear or a shoulder, I will be here for you.
@JAguirre oh how I could use a friend right about now... thank you so much for being there for me Sandy... love you lots
@Sandra Jordan Love you, too. If you ever want to talk, leave a message in my most recent picture and we'll hope to be in the app at the same ti
@Sandra Jordan me. I cannot imagine what you must be going through! I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you.
@JAguirre thank you so much... you are truly a blessing to me...
@Sandra Jordan A small blessing for what you are feeling, but thanks for saying that.
So that's why you've been so quiet. Poor Juanita...I've been there and even when it's the right thing to do, it's very painful. I was the
...who ended my 1st marriage...we loved each other but we were so different we (I?) was miserable. Still you grieve and then you feel bad
no one died and it was supposed to be a positive thing...I have a rule abt giving unsolicited advice but I'm gonna break it. Trust your
feelings...they are never right or wrong, they are just there and ask to be heard. Cry when you are sad, yell or write bad words or punch a
pillow when you are mad. And let your feelings out. You have so many friends here. I didn't talk much, because everybody gave advice...
(like now...oh dear). Sometimes you just need to get things out so you can sort thru it by yourself...we can do that...I mean just listen...
and empathize with whatever you feel. You are on a rough road, with blind curves and different paths...and even tho it is a hard journey,
you will also experience adventure, a sense of freedom, and incredible personal growth. Sandy is here, and Julie, and Monica, and if you get
desperate...there's me...lol. Stay in touch...keep talking and FEELING...love and 800 big comfort hugs...(end of unsolicited advice..,)
@JAguirre thank you so much for the words of encouragement... it really means a lot to me... I just want to break down right now...
I hear you my friend. You are not crazy. Divorce is 2nd only to death of a loved one regarding the impact it has on a person's life. Read
where you don't want to get out of bed and can't eat. And it's no wonder, your life as you knew it is gone..Who would want to eat?
You probably aren't sleeping well and your attention span is most likely shorter than a 3 yr. old's...you are still not crazy.
Your upheaval is exhausting...more than your most extensive work out...more than your most taxing job...you are tired for real, Sweetheart l
If you are able, stay in bed...snatch rest when you can get it...your body needs it. Hang out on the sofa...binge watch TV if you want to...
Don't answer the phone, if you don't feel like talking to anyone. This doesn't mean you will do this forever, but for now your body says you
needs to pull back some, so you can decide how to re-group. Some find newly single groups thru their church or community helpful...others
find existing close friends ease the pain some...the bottom line is no one knows your pain and sadness better than you...only you can know
which path helps you the most. It may take a few trys. Take your time for big decisions, such as legal help. Internet may have helpful info
when you feel up to research... no need to rush the big stuff. You are not being a drama queen with how you are feeling...your feeling are
true..and feelings of devastation, feeling lost and heart broken are not exaggerations...You will heal, but knowing that doesn't lessen
what you feel now. My only concern beyond your heart wrenching suffering is keeping you physically healthy. I am currently recovering frm
complications frm surgery in May..won't bore you with all that...point is my weight has dropped 30 pounds and is still dropping. Eating is
still difficult. I have been put on nutritional supplements... Ensure and/or Boost..available at the grocery store. They taste good, don't
cooking or any food prep...only 8 ozs, they are quick and don't leave you feeling bloated or worse. Your body is going thru alot...at least
these will give you some badly needed nutrition.
If you need a shoulder, know Sandy is here for you...& I will check on you as well. You will see later on how strong and resilient you are.
When you feel up to it, stay in touch. Know Sandy is very concerned. Love and hugs, my friend.
@JAguirre your such an amazing woman 🐰... I love you friend... yes that is exactly how I feel... thank you again... I'm so grateful for
@JAguirre having friends like you and Sandy... y'all 2 are truly my Queen's...
@Bunny Bram I check on you every day. You are the amazing one. You acknowledge how you feel, without self pity...it is what it is and it takes
@Bunny Bram courage to allow those feelings to come through. Many suppress this phase because, as you know well, it's incredibly painful and
@Bunny Bram even frightening. Others mask the pain with anger. Only the brave, like YOU, face the grief head on and shoulder the suffering. I
@Bunny Bram admire your courage, my friend....A wise person once said...(actually I think it was a character in a Stephen King novel...lol)
@Bunny Bram The best way to get over something is to go through it...which is exactly what you are doing.
@Bunny Bram When I was in the hospital I had a young but very no nonsense nurse...only in her 20s but so wise and so authentic. She came in to
@Bunny Bram see me when she learned that after 15 days, I was finally being discharged. I'll never forget what she said...
@Bunny Bram "I promise, you will not feel this way forever...This is temporary...not the rest of your life." As she was leaving, she stopped
@Bunny Bram at the door and shook her finger..."Remember, it's only temporary..."
@Bunny Bram Maybe her advice can help you as it helped me thru the rough days that were to follow.
@Bunny Bram Question: Now that you've seen them, wld you like me to delete my comments that go on forever..so your page won't be so cluttered?
@Bunny Bram I promise, it's no problem. Meanwhile, I'll continue to check on you here at the "Bunny Picture"...Easy to remember.
@Bunny Bram Let me know how you are feeling. Love you my brave friend. Sending you big chocolate covered hugs.